Recently, I saw a study by a social psychologist. They said that the limit of the number of friends who interact with each other in a lifetime is 10, 30, and 60. The so-called 10 are those real friends, that is, when you are in a hurry. When you are lucky, you are willing to lend money to you, including your parents and brothers and sisters.
The 30 are the friends you can contact from time to time. They may be your college classmates or your colleagues. The remaining 60 are those who have seen and added WeChat and may have spoken. But the friends who haven't contacted them later, that is, the concept of full friends, even the most broad, will not exceed 100. How many people are there in your circle of friends? Is it 500 or 1000? There are a few of us who are our true friends. At most, there may be only 10 or less than 10 people. Some people may not believe it. The easiest way is to borrow a lot of money from him right now. See if he is willing to lend you, or if you are killed now, you need to go to him to hide and see if he is willing to help you. If there is such a person, congratulations, there are such real friends. If there are no or less than 10 people, this is also a normal phenomenon. After all, it can be called a friend not everyone, but just a few people.
People's life, even if there are very few people accompanying you to a section, so we must distinguish between what is a true friend, what is a general friendship, and not seeing anyone who will give it to others, nor is it All the meetings are worthy of your heart and soul. After all, the human heart can't stand the test. Friends don't ask for a lot, just ask those few people who are really willing to help you. You must cherish it. After all, such people may have only a few people in your life.